Grieving is the price we pay because of our ability to love and be loved.
Given the choice to not love because of the grief that follows, we still choose to Love!
We MUST! Because to live without having loved is too high a price to pay.
It Really IS Just That Simple
Enjoy The Journey
It Really IS Just That Simple 
ThkQ for the comment, Màrgeret😍
I had rather loved even knowing there would be grieving later. I wouldn’t trade loving my husband for anything, we had such good memories together our kids together we loved each other deeply so 43 wonderful years together not everybody that’s married stays married our marriage wasn’t perfect we had our ups and downs but we work things out like a good marriage does. If you asked me now would I do it all over again knowing I would lose him to death I would have to say absolutely yes I would.